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Should We Hate Them?


Many of us are not quite sure how to react towards terrorists who have no qualms about killing huge numbers of people. Should we feel sorry for them because manipulative, demagogic religious leaders have indoctrinated them into these acts of killing? Or should we hate them for the terror, fear and chaos that they bring into our lives?

Hate is a very strong word, and there are those who maintain that eliminating hate will make the world a much better place. This could not be further from the truth. Any human attribute can be either good and bad. Indeed, inappropriate love is a destructive force: think of the woman who remains loyal to a child abuser and does not report him because she loves him. Yet when love is directed in the right direction it is one of the most powerfully positive and constructive forces known to humankind.

The same is true with hate. The Jewish people are intimately acquainted with the consequences of senseless hatred. We recently concluded three weeks of intensive mourning over the destruction of the Holy Temple in Jerusalem and the subsequent expulsion of Israel from its land nearly two thousand years ago. According to the Sages it was "senseless hate" (sin'at chinam) that caused the destruction of the Temple and initiated the current interminable galut (exile).1 Clearly irrational and pointless hatred is a detrimental and destructive force. However this does not mean that all hatred is bad. It can be wholly appropriate and there are some things that we are actually obligated to hate. Indeed Kind David said of evil people, "I hate them with a perfect hatred."2

The moment we begin to "understand" evil and its causes is the moment we become open to be influenced by it. The rationale behind this is a profound one. Since humans distance themselves from people and things that they hate, it follows that the surest way of keeping away from evil is to hate it. If one is ambivalent towards evil one can easily become sympathetic towards it. The minute we begin to "understand" evil and its causes is the minute we become open to be influenced by it.

However one must also realize that even "good" hate can be dangerous. Our hate must have a constructive rationale behind it that drives it and controls it. If we become consumed by our hate to the extent that it takes us over, then our hatred undergoes a metamorphosis from a valuable and constructive force to one that is senselessly destructive.

When hatred becomes all-consuming, it crosses the boundaries and becomes evil. This is where the terrorists have gone wrong. There are many destructive elements within Western society that one may despise, oppose, and endeavor to expose their destructive nature through communication with others. Such feelings of antipathy can fuel a passion to effectively oppose these negative traits. If, however, this hatred is allowed to become all-consuming--as the terrorists have done--then it crosses the boundaries and becomes evil.

Thus our response to the evil scourge of terrorism must be unrelenting. In order to successfully oppose it we must despise it and its perpetrators. Our challenge, however, is not to allow this legitimate antipathy to consume us to the extent that it becomes a force for destruction and evil.

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FOOTNOTES
1. Talmud, Yoma, 9a.
2. Psalms, 139:22.

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Rabbi Levi I. Brackman is director of Judaism in the Foothills and the author of numerous articles on issues of the day.
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Posted: Aug 13, 2008
Muslim Extremists
I am neither a Christian or a Muslim and have always supported The Hebrew State of Israel. I believe Israel is the God-given homeland of all the Jews on the planet. The Arab people should vacate Gaza, The West Bank and Jerusalem should be the undivided capital of The Hebrew State of Israel. The Palestinians can go to any of the surrounding Arab States, Jordan, Syria, Lebanon or Egypt. They have plenty of land. The whole world is under the threat of Arab takeover. They are imposing their evil doctrines here in the UK and have threatened to turn my country into a Muslim State. I believe that God is on our side as the Arabs have twisted their own religion to enforce their own evil cause. We must be unrelenting in opposing the "forces of evil". I support everything the Israeli Government and the IDF are doing, including the barrier, which is being built to protect The Jewish State of Israel.

God is with the Holy State of Israel
Posted By May Millar, Edinburgh, Scotland

Posted: Dec 16, 2006
distance
If you study psycology you would know that people distance themselves when they have been hurt, ridiculed, humiliated in public by name calling or lies, betrayal, abuse, to name a few. Who would want to be with people like that?
Posted By chava brodofsky, Atlanta, Ga.

Posted: Dec 30, 2005
"Love thy neighbor as yourself. As long as enough Jews think along the lines of this article, the Jewish people will not have peace with their neighbors." I think "neighbor" in this case is Jewish. I seriously doubt Torah tells us to love goyim.

"It is to heal the world of mis-relations, and to find the way to make those enemies our brothers, as they are.?" Who are our brothers? Terrorists? You've got the wrong religion, brother. We are the "Remember what Amalek did to you", not the "turn your left cheek."

As to this article, it is an excellent example of the difference between Musar and Chassidus. The former says, "suppress your ego". The latter says, "direct your ego toward good". Iskafia and iskapcha, you know? Obviously, if G-d gave us something (hunger, lust, hatred), we must not act like some confused Christians and suppress these feelings. We must direct them accordingly, in a way that Torah shows us. (Eat kosher food, etc.)
Posted By AVF



 


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